Part of your evaluation should be consulting a tax professional to determine if there are any immediate, negative tax consequences. You're not guaranteed to get hit by AMT just because you exercise some stock options.
Except it's not like any other investment. It's an investment that you are too close to. You can't think 100% objectively about an investment that you're too close to. For many people the solution is unambiguous: If I can't be objective about a decision then the answer is automatically 'no'.
FWIW, I'm speaking from experience. Had I taken GP's advice and "never exercise unless it's early exercise" then I would have missed out on a lot of money.
The other thing to keep in mind is you don't have to exercise 100% of your vested options. If you're too nervous or don't trust your own judgement, maybe go for 10%, or whatever makes you comfortable. There's a lot of room between 0 and 100 here. Go ahead and explore it.
My point is that these hard and fast rules don't leave any room for nuance. Consider, as I mentioned in another comment, you don't have to exercise 100% of your options. Exercise whatever makes you comfortable. Maybe that's one under the number that would push you into AMT.
If zero is your comfort level, then so be it. But get to that conclusion by doing a little thought and evaluation, not applying an arbitrary rule.
The people that can make a reasoned and well considered, as impartial as possible judgement about it don't need to be told to do so. In fact, a statement that one should never buy the options can and mostly will (rightly so) just be ignored by such people.
But, judging by the number of people that have NO CLUE about how it works, need only the tiniest thing to grab onto to make the wrong decision. There is zero need to recommend "well consider your risk". If you have to ask, then my advice is always as I gave it: not to skip it as a rule, but if you re-read you'll notice all I said was, the odds are not in your favor and you "should" just leave the options behind. I think there is a subtle but important difference. Maybe I'm splitting hairs, if so, sorry.
You're actually arguing survivor bias as being some kind of counter argument! You are in the pretty small minority, I do hope you understand that.
Tell me, how do you feel about COVID vaccine? Shouldn't we just be allowed to make up our own mind about it? If masks and vaccines work, well the scientific set can wear masks and vaccine up. The anti-vax crowd can do as they please and die. We don't need the government to TELL US what to do, do we? No one gets out alive anyway, amirite?
What is your recommendation on COVID? Evaluate the risk and decide for yourself? Surely you prefer Florida's or Texas' take on COVID to California's then?
I now come full circle: humans are really bad at assessing risk.
I have yet to hear a single case of an employee purchasing their options when they left and thinking it was the right decision later on.
I know at least a dozen ex-colleagues of mine who fit this criteria. When the company in question exited, it created 400 millionaire employees.
At the end of the day you're really throwing money into a black box which may turn out to contain a trash can. There is more financial transparency in penny stocks.
I've personally had great success with RSUs, but those are ultimately part of your comp even if you discount them to zero - there is no requirement to put in additional money.
I don't contest this point.
> I've worked at companies that raised many millions of $s and seemed very promising and a few years later went out of business.
The only narrative I contest with my anecdata is drawing a universal truth from this experience of yours.
As a sibling comment said:
> Salt of the Earth folk love to share their stories of financial misery, but generally keep quiet about their embarrassment of riches.
Obviously not literally "nobody", someone at some point joins google/microsoft/facebook/amazon/etc at an early stage and exists a millionaire many times over. Just like every week somebody wins the lottery. It's just not as likely to happen to you personally as the people selling you on joining their early startup would like you to believe.
Not here on HN.
I was prompted to post on this thread after reading comment after comment about failures.
Also, I have heard stories of former employees that didn't exercise their options or cashed out early, and I wouldn't say regretted it, but reflected on the fact that the stock did a lot better than they predicted it would.
Salt of the Earth folk love to share their stories of financial misery, but generally keep quiet about their embarrassment of riches.