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As if anyone would believe this person was not fully aware of the tradeoffs they were making in exchange for the higher pay.

In my experience working with highly motivated, highly paid people they often aren't particularly self-aware or introspective. In their mind it's not a tradeoff; they usually believe that every job in their industry is like theirs. I suspect this is due to the fact that they've worked long hours and said "Yes" to every request from the beginning of their careers. They genuinely don't understand that things could be different.

This is why so many businesses are struggling with remote working. They honestly don't get that people can work differently.

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> I suspect this is due to the fact that they've worked long hours and said "Yes" to every request from the beginning of their careers.

Also, "say yes to and do everything your boss/the police says to you" was ingrained into children for centuries.

The cost of that obedience propaganda, however, never showed up until modern day cutthroat capitalism.

>they usually believe that every job in their industry is like theirs.

It was, for the woman in the article. But no one forces them to be in that industry, other than their desire to earn high wages.

And no one forced her to take a break and take conscious perspective of how we live our lives.

This is a common experience: we all take things for granted or assume that things have to be done a certain way, simply because that's the way we've been doing it for so long.

no one forces them to be in that industry, other than their desire to earn high wages

Changing career later in life is a risky thing to do, especially if you don't have much in the way of transferable skills. Wanting to avoid poverty isn't quite the same as a "desire to earn high wages". People might know they'd happy on low- or mid-level wages but fearful of ending up with no wages. That's a reasonable concern.

People who work in Manhattan and fly often to London aren't in category of ending in poverty, more like having less paid (but still above average) and less stimulating job.

Of course if one has so messed up life priorities that job and life satisfaction coming from it is their #1 concern, way above raising their own kids, then its another of those sad stories later.

People are fearful of many things, usually not in very rational or smart way. One thing about being a proper adult (and a good parent) is to understand which fears are real and address them, and which are just some self-illusions because folks can't get their mind straight and sort out themselves and their lives (for the lack of better words).

> But no one forces them to be in that industry, other than their desire to earn high wages.

High wages are definitely a factor but being competitive and feeling energized by trades paying off count as well. It's a combination of high reward, betting excitement, and the pleasure of crushing your competition in a context where score is easily kept (in dollars).

If those are the things you enjoy, it's difficult to find all that in other industries.

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