What are some examples of well-written decentralized exchanges?
Even the fees are not a "problem", if you consider that there are already roll ups (loopring, zkswap) that run pretty much the same version of those contracts and cost fractions of a penny.
All of these projects have hundreds of million to billions in tvl and have been running fine for years.
Dexes are the backbone of the defi community and share very little in common with centralized exchanges.
Oh if only you knew.