> People are probably tired of hearing this, but this is not a problem with wiring, it's a problem with US banks.
I have a US bank and I can send wires online. It's really not uncommon. I don't understand how or why the OP is banking with an outdated bank an hour away from his house when there are good options that can be accessed entirely online.
There are a lot of behind-the-times banks in the US, though. If you're stuck in one, considering switching.