My view is that when you develop a product, you have to own everything. The users don’t care if the bug comes from code you wrote, or code in a library, or the language’s standard library, or the OS. You have to fix the bug no matter what caused it. It doesn’t matter if the code came from a vendor or a language designer or stack overflow; you are the one responsible for fixing it if something goes wrong. Non est salvatori salvator, etc.
With that perspective, I don’t think that 23 crates is terrifying. I’m going to look them all over and either pick one, or write the 24th crate myself. The result is the same either way.
I do agree with you about APIs though. It is nice to find a crate where the author has had the confidence to stabilize their API and declare the version to be 1.x instead of 0.x. But at the same time I recognize that getting to that point requires some real software to use the crate, to create the feedback loop. If nobody ever used a 0.x crate, no crate would ever get that feedback.