You're implicitly arguing that NoOps is not only a functional model, but also scalable and much less costly than having a {Dev|Sec}Ops staff. The last time this was publicly debated between Adrian Cockcroft and John Allspaw, it was immediately obvious to everyone that there is no such thing as NoOps. You can have developers support their own apps in production on the cloud, but that takes away time from developers and comes with its own set of downsides (most prominently, a disinterest in what they consider mundane or boring). Once your developers are spending, in aggregate, more than 40 hours a week do ops work, you'll gain efficiency by hiring a DevOps Engineer whose entire career focus is all the things developers aren't typically great at. I've seen this in-person as an employee at medium, large, and a Fortune 50 business. I haven't yet seen a single app, not even serverless, that requires zero maintenance. I have also seen highly-distributed, performant apps run on cheap hardware with no SAN or VMware to drive up the cost and complexity. That same app, made up of mostly microservices, was much more expensive to run on on the cloud.
You might want to stop throwing around terms like TCO when you also clearly don't understand how to calculate it.
I'm starting to be of the mindset that us-east-1 is already "Too Big To Fail". I guarantee you that conversations are being had in boardrooms right now about how to reduce dependency on that region, if not AWS entirely.