> Tens if not hundreds of thousands of people go to prison each year in the US and don't feel the need to kill themselves
Plenty do, and plenty die while they're in prison. This is not a rational justification for what happened to Schwartz (and looks to me like victim-blaming)
> Would we blame that person's ex?
I mean if the ex had maintained years of abuse and was threatening the person's life - yes? Yes we would?
Blaming mental illness is an utterly weak response here. Many, many people struggle with mental health and don't commit suicide; the assumption that mental health issues == suicide is reductive and harmful.