Outside the US I have friends in their 30s who have never even sent text message.
Just send your fucking messages on your mobile devices and be done with it.
If we want to talk about technical issues, though, it's pretty stark. MMS delivery and message ordering is significantly less reliable than pretty much any OTT service out there. Message size limitations mean videos get recompressed to garbage when you send them. There are basically no add-on features, like reacting with emoji to messages, for example.
The disappointing thing is that there's a solution to all of this: RCS[0]. Android supports it, but Apple of course loves their iMessage walled garden and refuses to, even though RCS has end-to-end encryption now. iMessage may be technically superior in some ways, and RCS certainly has its issues, but personally I feel interop is much more important here.
[0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rich_Communication_Services
A grand total of three of my contacts are on Signal lol
By that time SMS were free and unlimited under most plans in the US but not in other places. WhatsApp, Viber, LINE etc. caught the non-US markets rapidly as a free alternative to an expensive service. These messaging apps didn't do as well in the US, as they had an equally free built-in alternative (SMS).
Later, most operators made SMS free everywhere, but it was already too late.
10 years later, we still see the same results.
Now I'm one of those people that uninstalled WhatsApp and told all of my contacts that I'm moving to Signal. I'm still not getting any iMessage messages and >90% of my incoming SMS are from bots.
Find these on crypto, youtube, dating apps, you name it
iMessage is on the phone that iPhone users want.
Neither of those is lock in.
Maybe it's similar in Germany?