BLS data is not super useful for Software because bonuses and stock aren't included in their salary data.
That's not at all the same. I'm not talking about "a few RSUs" or a "small signing bonus". At all of the largest software employers, salary is at best half of total comp.
This year, my salary is less than 1/4th of my total comp. The other parts of my compensation are a cash bonus and RSUs, both guaranteed in my employment contract, both paid out+earned on the roughly the same schedule as my salary.
And the stock is literally better than cash given the inflation rate.
> retirement
This is actually instructive on how salary data can be wildly misleading.
There are tons of careers where salaries have modestly increased (or decreased on real terms) but where total comp as PLUMMETED as pensions were replaced with 401Ks.