HFT uses energy as a means to an end (i.e. computation), while proof-of-work mining has an incentive structure that directly rewards energy expenditure. In other words, one is energy- (and hardware-)bound, the other isn't.
As a thought experiment: If fusion energy and self-replicating nanobots were to become viable tomorrow, how would that impact HFTs and proof-of-work mining, respectively?
The main reason being is that they are all co-located with the exchange, and the byzantine fault tolerance is completely side stepped by the exchange having a single point of serialization between the HFT participants and the matching engine. And then just ensuring everyone has the same length cables to that single point of serialization.
So the policy of everyone connects through this single point, solves the fairness problem.
And then the fault tolerance is often just solved by having an active standby architecture, so if the primary matching engine goes down, you fail over to the backup.
You would be surprised at the low number of servers actually in the primary path for financial exchanges.