Literally NO ONE wants query hinting in Postgres to check some kind of feature box because other databases have it.
We know we want it because…other databases have it, and it's INCREDIBLY USEFUL.
> They straight up say that they're willing to consider the idea if somebody wants to say how to do it without the pitfalls of other systems.
Pitfalls my ass. We want exactly the functionality that is already present in other systems, pitfalls and all. That's just an excuse to do nothing, Apple-style, "because we know better than our own users" while trying to appear reasonable.
It's akin to not adopting SQL until you can do so "while avoiding the pitfalls of SQL." Just utter bullshit.