At the same time, it's because they don't care much. I'm quite sure that if Microsoft or Apple would change the way screen-sharing works between version of their OS, Zoom wouldn't wait 2 years to look at it.
I understand it's not as much market share, but it does make Zoom look really poor in tech companies where using Linux is more common.
It's also quite shameful for a company where the main thing they do is video conference and screen sharing, it's not like it's a small side feature.
Also you make it sounds like it changes every other day, but that's not the case. Screen sharing in wayland has been stable for a while now and it's adopted by all major compositors (mutter, kwin, wlroots).
As you mentioned, it's pretty well supported by a lot of open source software other than Zoom, so there's plenty of implementation examples they can go through as well.