It's hilarious how people perceive those who look like me.
Like we are some hyper-sensitive, fragile babies who cannot understand nuance of speech.
It's even worse when some white Americans are afraid to joke around me or poke fun at me, because they don't want to punch down.
Meanwhile I feel more privileged than most white Americans. I speak 3 languages perfectly.
One favor a hiring manager did for me, was giving me a tougher interview than most other candidates. He made sure everyone knew I was hired because I'm good at my job, not because I'm a "diversity-hired to fill some quota".
When I first moved here, I saw myself as a nerdy kid, who liked computers and wanted to build and create stuff. I saw myself as a human being who happened to look a certain way. I saw white people or Asian people just the same.
Then I made the mistake of consuming "woke content" on reddit and Twitter and it affected me, after college those ideas limited me in ways I could only imagine.
I really hope people see me as a bright kid whose into computers not some oppressed victim.
By the way, racism and prejudice exists but they show up differently.
Oh well!