Do you actually have any evidence this is true in "most" markets? It seems like only in a few markets around highly-desirable cities is this true. Farms don't sound like they're going to be representative of the types of housing that most people are looking for.
I'm 45 minutes south of Seattle and I purchased a large house with a backyard, recent-ish construction, no contingencies waived, for less than what a 500sqft loft is going for in Seattle.