A well-designed, general-audience technology product doesn't require one to be initiated into the mysteries before using it. The phone in my pocket is literally a million times more complicated than my first computer and I haven't read a bit of documentation. It works fine.
If btrfs wants to be something people use, its promoters need to stop blaming users for bad outcomes and start making it so that the default setup is what people need to get results at least as good as the competition. I have never read an extfs manual, but when I've had problems nobody has ever blamed bad outcomes on me not reading an extfs manual.