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Thanks, I hate it.

This is just a quick reminder to everyone to check yourself and make sure you aren't falling into the trap of thinking like this, I know it happens to me occasionally.

And there's very little I've seen that damages relationships[0] more.

[0] All kinds, not just romantic.

Yes, a lot of us do this. My wife keeps telling me to read "mistake were made, but not by me", she says it's paradigm shifting, and helpful to allow you to spot this behaviour early.

Which seems entirely too familiar for some reason...something that came up a lot for four years but then stopped about two years ago?

¯\_(ツ)_/¯

That seems more like "argument in the alternative" (see the comment by a_shovel).

Yep, sounds like Dad.