Therapy is useful to learn how to deal with problems. But even the most resilient person can be overwhelmed.
In the end, you have to learn to let go of stuff that happened.
Like dreams, sometimes it is not about the specific activities, but about the infrastructure that is required to make them true.
The "average" man probably doesn't do archery, or SCUBA diving, or play ultimate frisbee.
But enough do.
Ah jeez, I should have known know that, one of my clients is a PADI instructor and and my mum was BSAC certified.
realistically, i don't care what anyone thinks about my hobbies being appropriate for my age.