Firstly, you're being underpaid and living in a high COL area. Find a new position either remote or with correct market valuation for your level in NY if you don't want to move.

Secondly, you can pretty much follow the typical line of advice when it comes to personal finance. Build an emergency fund, pay off highest rates of debt first, contribute the max to your 401k/roth ira/hsa, invest the rest.