Might be able to short the right data pins from behind to ground and rip that out as needed. Or a hidden switch that does that.
I understand a lock, but just have a hard time seeing how it would actually lock (well), especially as a universal device.
A better way is to use a different kind of connector but you'll have to build yourself an adapter and to keep in your place or something.
But instead of spending days and weeks chasing it down, I spent maybe $30 on a battery cover with a little hidden flip switch. It was originally designed for turning on (illegal in my state)under lights, but I modified it slightly and had the switch connected to the ground terminal instead, so whenever I got off the bike I'd flip the switch and boom, problem solved, no more dead bike.
You can also put a lock on the hood, which is a good idea since that way nobody can disable the security system lol.
Edit: Also of note, the JL wrangler uses an RFID chip for the ignition startup itself. It's separate from the rest of the keyless go system.