Turns out it wasn't our car, just the same new VW Golf model in the same color, and her key worked for it for whatever reason. She only noticed because the actual owner had put some stuff on the rear window, which she only noticed when looking back to reverse out of the parking space.
I have no clue if VW had the same keys for all/many cars back then, or if it was a huge coincidence that the key fit well enough.
The story of "how mom almost stole a car" is still treasured family folklore :P
https://honda-tech.com/forums/honda-civic-del-sol-1992-2000-...
https://honda-tech.com/forums/honda-civic-del-sol-1992-2000-...
https://honda-tech.com/forums/honda-civic-del-sol-1992-2000-...
I guess the real answer is that any key/lock that isn't 1-year-new is worn down enough to fit any other honda.
I'm not sure they take security that seriously.
That is hilarious