> Who is more cool?
> Somebody who makes it clear they're wealthy or well connected or attractive or smart or etc...
> Or somebody who is upbeat and friendly with no desire to display anything about themselves?
The first one. It's the first one.
> Somebody who makes it clear they're wealthy or well connected or attractive or smart or etc...
> Or somebody who is upbeat and friendly with no desire to display anything about themselves?
The first one. It's the first one.
It just strikes me as silly that the traditional status game is so easily gamed (demonstrably effectively).