So Facebook must be on those $3 per month servers... right?
The only thing you said that make sense is the last sentence.
They use it cautiously and reluctantly because they don't have much choice at this point. The Asana and Quora founders ditched it at the earliest opportunity.
So if you want Facebook to be your PHP success story, all you get out of it is "PHP didn't kill their company; they were eventually able to move away", which I suppose is not exactly a swimming endorsement.