Yes at the beginning there was some shame. Then because of the lockdowns my wife was always at home and the shame went away :D

Although she hated the fact that while I was playing I was so focused that I didn't listen to her (I also had headphones on), in the end she accepted it and would just write me a message telling me to talk to her when the match was over...

Also the decision to cut the game off completely came from me 100%, she never demanded that I should stop playing completely