It’s OSS you are no one’s guinea pig. If you don’t want to participate you don’t have to use it if the ones who participate want to try other things switch and don’t complain like a old male whore on the sidelines.
This has nothing to do with OSS though. You can switch from a closed sources solution too.
The problem is you investment and attachment to certain things.
In any other case any person will have a long list of better things to do.