Why should we care about your anecdotes here, though? Especially when they're going against the science.
> I understand you have a cause to push but I'm not the guy you should be pushing it at.
You're the one claiming your anecdotes to be the truth here, trying to push your anti-bicyclist view.
> I'm just some middle aged dude trying to get his kids to school safely
Ironically, you and the other drivers are the risk factor for school kids. Why do you even feel the need to drive them to school? To dangerous for them to walk/bike because of other cars is my guess.