Is it not possible that your unilateralism on this issue has galvanized the will of the victims of the conduct you espouse to oppose you via controlling speech?
Seems that what we have now, which is essentially Isiah Berlin's negative liberty would be a good compromise. Negative liberty:
"liberty in the negative sense involves an answer to the question: 'What is the area within which the subject—a person or group of persons—is or should be left to do or be what he is able to do or be, without interference by other persons" --Isaiah Berlin
Basically working to eliminate coercion of individuals as much as possible.
This state would serve everybody except, of course, those who were seeking to coerce people either overtly or covertly, instead of persuade them, which I feel is something different.
Thoughts?