Is is practical or useful to self-host your own instance? Not for public use, but just for you?
Has anyone done this? Does linking to other servers work OK? Any upsides/downsides?
Has anyone done this? Does linking to other servers work OK? Any upsides/downsides?
If you want to be well federated even with the smaller instances, you need to hang around for a while; build connections within the larger communities; then ask to federate with any smaller instances you want to connect directly with.