> She comes from such a traditional family, that if they somehow found out they’d literally likely commit suicide.

"they" in this case is the family finding out and the family committing suicide? or did "they" change mid-sentence. Sounds bad for any party finding out, just trying to understand the threat model here. If your primary partner found out about the widely reported data leak existing and becoming suicide sounds now extremely probable. The other possible readings of that sentence are, extreme, but less extreme in probability.

Just a couple readings of this that aren't clear.