Who's not the team player in this story? The person who stands up and tries to provide some leadership in a situation that has stalled?
1. "You're all being mired in nonsense. Give me the board, hand me the packets, and I'll show you how it's done."
2. "Okay, let's organize this somehow. I'll make a list of related widgets and gadgets. Becky, can you see if we all have the same dooh-dad structure?"
I'd say 1 is an asshole, and 2 is a Team Player™