That's very much here and there, and ridiculous. Vue offers an interface that is extremely heavily transpiled and modified before it actually resembles code that can run on the browser, and uses an entirely magic (read: opaque) rendering system, making performance analysis quite difficult. React offers a thin layer on top of JavaScript - look up what JSX actually does if you feel the need to contest this - and offers clear semantics on how a component will evolve over its lifecycle. Plus the TypeScript integration is way better.
So now back to your point: what are you criticizing about React? That you want the batteries included? That you think the vDOM is too heavy? If you're praising vue, I can't imagine you have a single legit criticism
> too many folks' livelihoods is directly tied to React for a serious critique of the monstrosity it turned into
If other libraries were actually as good, they would take over developer mindshare. They're too thick and with too much magic you can't control, React is on the exact opposite end of that spectrum with being thin and unopinionated outside of its core semantics. Which is the right end to be on, and the reason it is winning the developer mindshare war. Not because of sunk cost fallacy.