I don't accept your presumption that having a penis makes someone inherently more dangerous
The data really really doesn't support your view. Men are objectively more dangerous.
https://www.statista.com/statistics/251886/murder-offenders-...
https://stoprape.humboldt.edu/statistics
An estimated 91% of victims of rape & sexual assault are female and 9% male. Nearly 99% of perpetrators are male