> Not only that, I guess what what made everything just not worthy was Germans giving you shit every time you make a mistake, or your 5-vowel mother language makes it hard to pronounce things. Not only that, but then if you make mistakes you get judged immediately as somebody that "didn't want to integrate".

This isn't my experience at all, as a non-native German speaker living in Berlin with a half German child.

> People would generalize and now, after 10 years. With 2 half-german daughters I don't want to learn the language.

Trust me, you're being judged (fairly, imo) a lot more harshly for living somewhere for a decade and not even bothering to learn the local language.