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>only to find out that this is a loser's strategy

I'm still processing this truth. I basically put my life, university and career on stop to help my sister. I oscillate between thinking "I'm a good person" to "I just wish I were a selfish bastard".

Definitely a loser's strategy.

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It's not a looser strategy, it is just a choice and compromise. You can't do or have everything. Sometimes you have to give things up to get other things you want.

You prioritized one are over another and there is nothing wrong with that.

> to help my sister.

Curious, help with what? Why did you have to put your life on hold?

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