Right-wing politicians have been weaponizing the term in recent months:
https://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/2022/03/12/florida-... ; the #3 Republican in the house is throwing around the term "pedo" in a similar context.
https://twitter.com/EliseStefanik/status/1525187193702055940I can understand the confusion. That said, Discord and similar places have genuine grooming going on, largely unfettered.