You personally might not find these benefits useful, or they might not outweigh the disadvantages (which BTW are subjective). But every person is different.
You personally might not find these benefits useful, or they might not outweigh the disadvantages (which BTW are subjective). But every person is different.
This is all to say that cars aren't solely a matter of personal choice. Car culture was been imposed on us by urban planners with tremendous power. For more on this, even in NYC, see the introduction to Robert Caro's Pulitzer Prize-winning book on Robert Moses.
Remember that owning a car doesn't ban you from using the subway or whatever if it's a better choice for that trip.
And public transport will never have the privacy that a car has. Comfortable heated seats. Setting the AC to your liking. Blasting your music. Having a quiet conversation with your partner. Not worrying about others people COVID or whatever. People selling you stuff or crazy in general. Leaving from your driveway and arriving at the destination's doorway. Which is a big deal if it's raining, if you're with your elderly parent, if your carrying something heavy, etc. And if you're a nocturnal beast like me, cars are so much better in general.
BTW I much preferred living in LA when I lived there, to the few stays I had in NYC Manhattan, and to Buenos Aires.
A subtly better way to frame this is to say that American cities were destroyed for cars. Streetcar tracks were ripped up. Roads were widened at the expense of sidewalk. Neighborhoods were demolished and replaced with parking lots, freeways, and car dealerships. Many municipalities stopped maintaining their core inner cities and bet the house on big-box stores on the outskirts. It cost hundreds of billions of dollars collectively to subsidize the car in the U.S., which had the side effect of cannibalizing passenger rail and metropolitan transit, as well as building places that are prohibitively dangerous to cycle or walk in.
One illuminating exercise is to find photos of Houston from the 1920s and compare them to the 1970s. You would think that someone had carpet-bombed the city.
However that ship has largely sailed in North America so you're not wrong. Given the pattern of city planning we're stuck with cars are not going to be replaced any time soon.
There’s a reason most New Yorkers don’t drive.