Try Northgard.
It's an RTS but with very calm/slow pacing and is very forgiving if you don't want to zone into it like other fast paced rts games.
It's an RTS but with very calm/slow pacing and is very forgiving if you don't want to zone into it like other fast paced rts games.
I would have preferred it to be either "enter tile and attack what's there" vs "retreat".