> Another thing frequently discussed in those circles.

That’s the problem, they shouldn’t be discussing it ;)

> Some people being sexually adventurous in California, the horror.

I could’ve said “joining cults like Leverage” instead of polycules but that would be mean. However like I did say, the problem with being a young man who gets into an open relationship because you rationally determined it was optimal is, you’re wrong and your girlfriend is going to leave you.

If you’re going to have weird sex, at least have a more fun reason for it. (There’s a tweet I want to link here about a rationalist nude sex party where they all sat around discussing immigration politics instead of having said adventures, but unfortunately I can’t remember how to spell Aeolla to find it.)