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I mean most people (like you) seem to justify having kids in a selfish way (self-growth, experiences).

As someone who doesn't want my own kids (but like kids and spend time with them), I feel no need to have my own

I mean most people (like you) seem to justify having kids in a selfish way (self-growth, experiences).

What is an example of a non-selfish reason someone would have kids?

Can't really think of any. But not saying being selfish is wrong either. There is a lot of things we do that are selfish.