In all fairness all these comparisons and all these BSD vs. another BSD vs. Linux OS wars are becoming long in the tooth. There haven't been any news or revelations in a long, long time. Want to try a BSD (or a Linux distro) on a VPS? Good for you. Want to do it on a laptop? By all means. Want things to work out of the box? Get a system with an OS preinstalled (and supported). Otherwise, the differences between the OS you'll find will be minor.