The cheap lead-acid batteries you find in your car don't handle deep discharge very well, let it go empty a couple times and you have to replace it (at least they can be recycled easily). There are variants that can handle that better, but they cost easily twice as much. If you charge them too much they start venting hydrogen, which could build up to dangerous levels in buildings. I think that was discussed as a cause in the OVH datacenter fire.
So they do have some problems, but still almost all battery backup is done with lead acid (with lithium-iron catching up as a good replacement). I think most of these li-ion backup batteries are more about using surplus production when you scale your battery production faster than vehicle sales.