So is this debate partially just another way of asking if language is the same as reality? The difference between "things I've experienced" vs "stored in languages" seems... not trivial to me? Both in that I think the way biological memory works is non-trivially different from word tokens stored in computer memory, and also in that I think there's more to having experienced something than it just being stored in biological memory (or maybe that biological memory is more than just "memories", but is encoded throughout the body overall -- a scar is a type of memory of an injury, for instance, connected to but still different from my "memory" of having received it).