It's literally called "windows decorations" in the settings. https://userbase.kde.org/System_Settings/Windows_Decorations
See the "window border size" dropdown here https://userbase.kde.org/images.userbase/d/d2/SystemSettings...
See the "window border size" dropdown here https://userbase.kde.org/images.userbase/d/d2/SystemSettings...
I say again, though: Defaults matter!