I appreciate you posting this. I like the premise of V and really want for it to suceed, but this is a good summary of why I think so many people dislike V: the lead dev and community do not engage criticism in good faith.
I'm sure V receives its fair share of unwarranted criticism, but a lot of legitimate criticism and questions are either met with a) hostility or b) incredulity, which causes people to dislike the language for fundamental reasons.
Both the creator and community members gaslight (for lack of a better word) and act as if they're happy to receive questions or feedback, but even in this thread you can see people being treated like I mentioned above.
E.g. https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=31947510, https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=31947121, https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=31947212, https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=31947014, https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=31946715, https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=31947977