It's pretty apparent to me what the problem is here and it's already been voiced in countless posts here by other men.
So, since you asked for encouragement only, I highly encourage you to get some cats to keep you company as you age.
So, since you asked for encouragement only, I highly encourage you to get some cats to keep you company as you age.
I’m allergic to cats, but I know they can make good companions to women and men.
The main alternative I’m considering is an intentional community, which I’ve found can be really fulfilling and more sustainable ecologically than living alone.
But I do appreciate you taking the time to offer your heartfelt advice.