That's not an accident. Nor a failing in the many timeless tools of emotional education - literature, drama and other arts. It's deliberate and systematic. Ever since Edward Bernays the power of Wall Street has been directed at stripping our emotional centres of everything but blind selfish desire. Late capitalism depends on arrested emotional development. Indeed, I think it was Adam Phillips who said "Capitalism is for children". The object of a consumer culture is psychoanalysis in reverse, to make the conscious unconscious and to celebrate and harness the irrational impulses of fear, shame, greed and so on. That's what sells stuff.