The actual point is that this is a classic social battle: One person is offended having to adjust to X and the other person is offended if they don't adjust. So how do we solve this, who is objectively right? Either you put maximum value on people's emotional welfare then you'll side with camp A or you side with least amount of energy expenditure then you go with camp B or various other partial camps exist as well which will all have their own social media campaigns to win the war. As you can probably tell, I consider this all a waste of energy so you can guess what camp I am in but I'm also in many partial camps that still respect people's names that they want to use. Lots of common sense should be factored in ("hey, what if Turkey decides to change their name every 5 years? Every 5min? Every 5 seconds? I still have to adjust?") Anyway, we can be pretty sure that whoever is talking about this issue on social media is already part of their battle camp and not going to make fair arguments. Kind of how you immediately went to an unfair position by implying that you'd call him a totally different name (=Bob), and how his position is supposedly that "we dont care about what people want"