Promises are not monads, for one simple reason: they're not referentially transparent. The whole point of OP's example is to double down and take advantage of that.
It is definitely true that Promise is a data type that _could_ admit a monad instance. It has:
- a data type M a which is Promise a
- a function pure with the signature a => M a, which is x => Promise.resolve(x)
- a bind function with the signature M a => a => M b => M b which is essentialy `then`
But a monad requires three properties to hold true: Right identity, Left identity and associativity. Right identity holds for every function `f: a => M b`, but left identity and associativity do not hold.