Since this is on frontage, a gentle reminder, dear reader, sshfs is looking for maintainers, and currently does not have any.
(it honestly seems relatively finished, so I don't think there's all that much work, either.)
SSHFS is fun but there are easier ways to accomplish the same thing.
Those combinations are far more complicated than using the same transport and firewall rules that you've already configured.
It’s not the fault of sshfs, but it attracts people who just creates the messy systems.