Everyone needs to be their own advocate when it comes to medical care but I've heard multiple horror stories from my female friends that would never have occurred to me ("You're overreacting", "It's not that painful", "Maybe it's just cramps", "Have you tried X?").
They're about 50% likely to be reversible after 5 years. That's not what we generally mean when we say something is "reversible". It's a permanent procedure that can sometimes be reversed.
If men do turn out to get less pushback, I wonder if a contributing reason is that it's less medically risky to reverse a vasectomy than reversing e.g. tubal ligation.
(I don't know that it is less risky and/or more likely to succeed. But the vas deferns is incredibly accessible.)
You can see this with people posting pictures of pre-transition Elliot Page and captions like "remember what they took from us" all the time on social media.