The company not only has to do well, it has to decide to actually IPO, and then there are lockout dates, and it’s always given as options instead of straight grants, and the vesting, and all the other constraints that I’ve forgotten. I’ve just valued them as zero when considering offers and only consider the salary portion which has the insidious(for employers) effect of making me unaligned with the companies best interests beyond the end of the week.
Talking to my coworkers at every place I’ve worked it seems like a common feeling.
Granted I’ve never worked at a unicorn company or faang so it might just be a function of working for less competent employers who are cargo culting compensation and don’t understand how it’s supposed to bind the employees to the company having a good future
It seems like a lot of companies are so afraid of their employees gaining any sort of value out of the company that they’d rather risk failure than risk the situation being a win/win. The employers aren’t completely brain dead and they seem fine enough at negotiating and evaluating risk when it’s company to company negotiations. I can only assume it’s some cultural component of the wealthy class that leads to the continual self sabotage